Have you ever felt like you’re just okay at a lot of things but not particularly gifted at anything? Many people experience this doubt, especially when their strengths don’t fit traditional categories like public speaking, leadership, music, or art.
But here’s the one truth I’d love for you to remember: God has given you a unique set of gifts, even if you don’t fully recognize them yet. Scripture proves this time and time again.
In this post, we’ll explore why so many people struggle to see their gifts, what the Bible says about your unique talents, and how you can start using them in a way that glorifies God and serves others.
Why Do People Struggle to See Their Gifts?
Many people go through life believing they don’t have a significant talent or calling. This doubt often comes from one of the following reasons:
1.) Society Defines “Gifts” in Limited Ways
In many churches, schools, and workplaces, gifts are often categorized in very narrow ways. If you’re not a talented speaker, you might feel like you don’t have a voice. If you’re not a natural leader, you might think you’re meant to stay in the background. If you’re not highly creative, you might assume you lack originality.
But gifts come in many forms – not just the ones that receive the most attention.
2.) Comparison Distorts Perception
When you compare yourself to others, it’s easy to feel like your abilities don’t measure up. Audrey shares, “I remember sitting in youth group, listening to a lesson about gifts and thinking “I don’t have any of that.” I wasn’t a speaker or an actor. I just felt… average. I was okay at a lot of things but not great at one thing.”
Many people feel this way, assuming that if their skills are not obvious or widely praised, they must not be special. But it all comes down to envy and comparison—and as the Bible teaches us, these are the thieves of joy.
3.) Misunderstanding How Gifts Develop
Another reason people struggle to recognize their gifts is that they expect gifts to be fully formed from the start. But that’s not how it works – this should remind us that the gifts are given, but the fruits are developed. This means 3 things:
- A natural ability may exist within you, but it still needs refining.
- You may not fully realize your strengths until you use them over time.
- Some gifts emerge only through experience and perseverance.
Just because you don’t see your gift clearly today, doesn’t mean it isn’t there.
Biblical Proof That You Have a Unique Gift
In case you’re still questioning whether you have something special to offer, the Scripture provides undeniable proof that everyone has been given gifts by God. Here are some of it:
1. Your Gifts Were Given for a Purpose
“We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.” – Romans 12:6-8
This verse emphasizes that each person has been given different gifts according to God’s grace. Some are called to teach, some to serve, some to lead, and others to encourage. Not everyone is meant to have the same role, but each gift is equally valuable in God’s eyes.
The key takeaway from this passage is that your gifts were never meant to be hidden or ignored. They are given for a reason – to be used. If you feel uncertain about what your gifts are, start by looking at the things that come naturally to you and bring you joy.
2. Even “Small” Gifts Matter
“Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one Spirit so as to form one body—whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free—and we were all given the one Spirit to drink. Even so, the body is not made up of one part but of many.
Now if the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. If the whole body were an eye, where would the sense of hearing be? If the whole body were an ear, where would the sense of smell be? But in fact, God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be. If they were all one part, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, but one body.
The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!” On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.
Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.” – 1 Corinthians 12:12-27
In this passage, Paul compares the body of Christ to the human body, explaining that just as every body part has a function, so does every believer. The hand cannot say to the foot “I don’t need you,” and the eye cannot claim to be more important than the ear. Each part is essential, even if its role is not always obvious.
This is a reminder that just because a gift isn’t seen by everyone doesn’t mean it lacks importance. The parts of the body that seem less significant are actually indispensable. Whether your talent is speaking, writing, organizing, listening, or supporting others behind the scenes, your contribution matters deeply to God’s plan.
Audrey shared how this realization changed her perspective: “I used to think that some people were called to serve in big ways, and others – like me – were just there to sit in the pews and support them. But that’s not true. There’s no ‘extra’ or ‘unimportant’ part of the body. Everyone has a purpose.”
3. God Gives Talents in Many Forms – Including Creativity
“Then the Lord said to Moses, “See, I have chosen Bezalel son of Uri, the son of Hur, of the tribe of Judah, and I have filled him with the Spirit of God, with wisdom, with understanding, with knowledge, and with all kinds of skills— to make artistic designs for work in gold, silver, and bronze, to cut and set stones, to work in wood, and to engage in all kinds of crafts. Moreover, I have appointed Oholiab son of Ahisamak, of the tribe of Dan, to help him. Also, I have given ability to all the skilled workers to make everything I have commanded you.” – Exodus 31:1-6
Many people assume that biblical gifts are only related to ministry, but God also gifts people in practical and creative ways. One of the most overlooked examples of this is found in Exodus 31, where God specifically calls and equips artists: “I have filled him with the Spirit of God, with ability and intelligence, with knowledge and all craftsmanship…”
This passage shows that creativity is not just a personal talent but a divine gift. Skills in design, craftsmanship, and artistry are just as valuable as gifts like preaching and teaching. God intentionally gives people the ability to create, innovate, and bring beauty into the world.
So, if you’ve ever been made to think that because you are more artistic than, let’s say, evangelistic, that you are not by some means evangelizing some character of God through that ability – you are. It matters – your work matters.
4. Your Gifts Were Designed for This Time and Place
Another powerful truth is that your gifts are meant for this exact moment in history. Ephesians 2:10 says, “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do”, which reminds us that we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ for good works that He prepared in advance for us to do.
This means that your unique skills, passions, and experiences are not random – and they are not for nothing. They were intentionally woven into your life for a purpose. Even if you don’t fully see it yet, God is using you in ways you may not realize.
How to Recognize and Use Your Gifts
- Notice what comes naturally to you. Think about what tasks or activities you do with ease that others find difficult. Your natural abilities are often tied to your God-given gifts.
- Pay attention to what excites you. Your gifts are often connected to the things that bring you joy and fulfillment. What kind of work, conversations, or activities energizes you? (We have a full discussion of this on 8 Questions to Unlock Career Clarity – which you can read here).
- Ask others for insight. People around you may recognize your gifts before you do. Ask trusted friends, mentors, or family members what strengths they see in you.
- Stop comparing. Your gifts are meant to be different from others. Just because they don’t look like someone else’s doesn’t mean they aren’t valuable. Proverbs 16:9 says, “Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord who establishes his steps.” Trust that God has placed the right gifts in you for the path He has prepared.
Your Gifts Are Not Accidental
You don’t have to be a preacher, a singer, or a public speaker to have a meaningful gift. You don’t even have to fully understand your gifts yet – God is still at work in you. So, if you’ve ever questioned whether you have something special to offer, let this be a reminder:
You do. And God is using you – even now.
Listen to the full episode here. And, if you want to go deeper in understanding your unique gifts and how they can align with a job that you feel called to, schedule a FREE 30-minute call with us.
